So, I read about this challenge on Tumblr answering one question each day of February about my personal relationship with non-monogamy and I thought it might be fun.
Day 2: When did you first realize you were non-monogamous?
I don’t know if there was a first realization. There was a first introduction to the idea and that was in college.
I had a threesome in the first few months I was college. None of us had a preexisting relationship. We talked about being in a relationship with all three of us – something we conceived of being possible, but didn’t know any terminology. So I did research, like I did. And discovered polyamory.
This relationship never panned out for a number of reasons, but the idea resonated with me. And I was never quite the same.