26. A resource you’ve found especially helpful.

Just see the books and site from the post from the 25th.  There is also a forum site called Polyamorous Percolations that I found very useful in my early wanderings into non-monogamy, but I do not know if it is still used, as I haven’t been on in years.

I also have linked a few other useful resources to read in my links in the sidebar.

Another important resource has been the people in the community around me.  Seriously, as problematic/dramatic as they can be, I highly recommend finding at least one online community to talk to – local is a bonus, but not really necessary.  Heck, I recommend more than one, just in case you need to vent about someone who is in one group, but not in the other.  I found mine through friends and kept up through Facebook.  Having an online community helped me realize that the problems and joys I had were not just mine alone – that there were a lot of other people, even in my area, who dealt with the same sorts of things, and may be willing to help me wrap my brain around an idea that I am having some issues understanding.