29. What is one thing about your partner(s) that drives you nuts? What’s one thing that makes you smile?

Trydaen
Nuts: The insistence that all my problems are because I don’t have perspective or that I need to accept that everything is a choice.
Smile: All the random things that I learn from or about him each day – still, after 5 years.

Diplomat
Nuts: The difference in blanket weight needed at night.
Smile: That smile…

Lola
Nuts: The massive differences that her extroversion and my introversion can cause in social situations or between us.
Smile: The way she treats the people arpund her – including her kids, roommate, me, metamours, etc.