Something about the LGBTQ community you don’t understand or have a question about.
Why the white, cisgender, gay men insist on hogging Pride events. You had your turn in the spotlight, how about you let go of that, just a little, and let other queer community members step forward?
I know this is changing, but not quickly enough.
To a certain extent, I understand how this came to be. For these folks, there was only one axis on which they weren’t in the position of privilege – sexual orientation. These days, sexual orientation matters less if you have the other privileges – at least: race, gender alignment, and sex. Your sexual orientation matters less to society as a whole if you are not politically active in regards to it, especially if you conform to gender expectations regarding expression and presentation. These gay men got more power as the stigma around gayness decreased, so they ended up saying screw you to anyone who wasn’t them, and formed modern Pride celebrations in their image.
This is some of what activism has bought the queer community – the ability to fly under the radar if you don’t raise a fuss. Which is bullshit. Pride started out as a riot – making a fuss, making ourselves known, putting ourselves in people’s faces so that they can recognize that we are people who are as deserving of equality, de jure and de facto, as anyone else, even if we don’t/can’t conform. Lacking that, why are we accepting flying under the radar as a second option?
Maybe we aren’t. I think the trans* community has been slowly picking up the mantle that has been slipping from the fingers of the white, cisgender, gay men, and making it our own, sewing our own colors onto it.