Just something I’ve been thinking about, off and on, for quite a while. Not addressed to anyone in particular. In no particular order.
- When people assume I am a delicate porcelain doll who cannot take any physical strain. Makes me so upset. I like things a little rough–and I am very vocal if I do not like something or think it is too rough. I have a fairly high pain tolerance, so chances are it probably won’t hurt me. I’ve noticed this is more common among guys than gals.
- In and out fingering. Despite the fact that PIV usually has very similar motions and can be very pleasurable, this kind of fingering has not and does not do anything for me at all. This is a universal offender.
- Silent partners. I like to know what people are thinking, whether they like what’s happening, if they wish I would change something up. I read a theory once that said that guys do this because they are used to silent masturbating. Talk to me, please. Mostly a guy thing, but it does happen with gals.
- Always having to be the initiator–especially with non-sexual activities. I don’t mind doing it my fair share of the time; it can be quite exciting and enjoyable. All the time–it gets boring quick. I have submissive tendencies, so initiating things can be a pleasant challenge, but also a pain in the butt. Most a gal thing, but have also noticed it in guys.
I had a fifth one, but I can’t remember what it was. Oh well.
Look for more pet peeves editions in the far future.