The first person you came out to and that story?
Bisexual/queer: Probably someone in my very early freshman year. I was eager to explore what that meant, so I don’t know who it was I told first.
Genderqueer/Gender fluid: I had been having thoughts about it for at least six months before I told anyone and I did it on my first date with Diplomat. I’m not even sure he knows that. I just gave the thought words then. They had been brewing for awhile beforehand.